Bowel incontinence is an embarrassing and stressful problem for any patient and for the caregiver. It can cause emotional distress as well as the physical problems often associated with fecal incontinence. The skin that surrounds the anus is particularly sensitive and delicate. Any problems with your stools such as diarrhea and constipation can cause severe pain or itching in that area. Anal discomfort is a real problem for someone with fecal incontinence. There are ways to relieve this discomfort.